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How to find a mentor
A free #1 fan, life coach, and career shortcut. Mentors have done exactly what you’re about to do, so they save you time. They put you in touch with other smart people, and they vouch for you.
What are you looking for?
Pick one and the email to send shows up here.
Write a one-sentence pitch
Every template above has a blank for a pitch about you. Here’s how to fill it. Allison is a sophomore in college. She’s worked at a lab for a year but doesn’t feel like she’s achieved much: no papers, nothing flashy. She loves the work, though, and puts in the hours. Her one sentence:
She focused on what she’s done the most of, and readers realize that’s a lot of hours for a sophomore. Say you want to do cancer research. Even if you’ve only taken one chemistry class, phrase it like:
I’m an 11th grader interested in cancer research. In my chemistry class, I stay late to ask my teacher questions and help clean up.
Or do a little math and say something like:
I’m an 11th grader interested in cancer research with 300 hours invested in learning chemistry and biology, 50 hours practicing experimental design in class activities, and (not that it’s relevant) a really cute dog.
Find people who went to your school
If your high school has a lot of successful grads, try googling:
site:linkedin.com “[your high school name]” “[a topic you’re vaguely interested in]”
The results are people on LinkedIn, a job-finding site, who went to your high school. Reach out to them. You already have something in common.
Even if nobody shows up, ask your teachers if they keep in touch with any former students doing something interesting.
What a mentor actually does
They tell you about their terrible life choices, from career and employer chats to eating ice cream for lunch every day without realizing they’re lactose intolerant. They introduce you to other smart people. They vouch for you. Growth. Emotional support. Free food.
A good mentor lets you learn for yourself. They guide you without telling you what to do. They answer questions and give good advice. They do not do your homework.
FAQ
I can’t find their email
- Google “[person’s name] email” and poke around.
- If you get results from a site like Apollo or RocketReach, it’s fine to make a free account there to see emails. Those sites are legit.
- If they work at a company, find someone’s email at that company. Every address follows the same format, like firstinitial.lastname@company.com.
I don’t know what careers I’m interested in
Pick the not sure path above: a mentorship program matches you with someone, and the conversations are how you find out. Our guide to finding careers you’d like is a work in progress. Want to know when it’s done? Ping us.
How much of their time should I ask for?
An hour a week or an hour a month. Say which in the email so they can say yes without wondering what they’re signing up for. Small asks get more yeses, and you can always ask for more once it’s going well.
Next steps
Get an internship
Once you know someone, ask them for work.
Read the guide →Email like a pro
Cold emails that actually get a reply.
Read the guide →Measure your school time
The “10% increase” line in the template comes from here.
Read the guide →Find a career you like
Not sure what you want to do yet? Start here.
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